Make Your Ex Want You Back Desperately
How can you make your ex want you back desperately? Can you really bring back love after a bitter breakup, a broken engagement or on the verge of a divorce?
Getting an ex back is not something we are taught. We are pretty much left to fend for ourselves in our despair.
So when we are confronted with a loved one walking out on us, we feel helpless. We are in pain, feel alone and have no one to turn to for help, comfort and advice.
Rest assured that you can (and will) get your love back, but only if your ex still has loving feelings for you. With proper guidance, it is definitely possible to fan the flames no matter how dim they may be at this time.
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Here’s a heads up: Whether you’ve broken up with a girlfriend or boyfriend, or getting a divorce, the best and fastest way to get your love back into your life is to have your ex yearn and long for you, and not the other way around.
There are steps you can take to get your lover back, and they are within your reach, regardless of who ended it all. Some of these methods may seem counter-intuitive, but they have been found to work. So, take a deep breath, believe in yourself and read on.
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Give your ex some space or you’ll never get your love back
First and most important, you need to back off! “Are you serious?” you ask. Yes! Back off and lie low. How will your ex miss you if you’re hovering around like a stalker?
Give your ex and yourself time to heal. Emotions are still raw so don’t attempt contact where you might say something you will later regret. Give your ex room to breathe, especially if the reason for the breakup is because your ex felt suffocated in the relationship.
You will want to use this time to make an honest assessment of your relationship. Make sure that the time, effort and emotion you will be putting into getting your ex back will be worth it.
Your ex want won’t want you back unless you stop the frantic, desperate pursuit
Unfortunately, most people harass their ex with calls, text messages and emails. This is so wrong! Don’t make this fatal mistake. There’s nothing attractive about someone who is constantly pleading and being needy.
Show that you are strong and confident even if you feel weak and miserable. Most of us are not mean-spirited, but your ex could be pushed to be hard on you if you show weakness and are whiney.
Instead, start playing some very effective head games. The first tactic you can use to make your ex want you back, is to pretend you are totally okay with the breakup — even if you’re not (watch this video to find out how). This will hurt you his or her ego and will want you even more.
Then, play hard to get. Use what psychologists call “push-pull behavior.” This is what goes on when you desperately want something or somebody you can’t have.
As human beings, we always want something that seems beyond our reach. We always desire something that might be forever lost, if not acted upon and secured really fast.
So, you need to stay mysterious and unavailable. This will make your ex wonder why you’re no longer into him or her as you used to be. Anxiety and fears of losing you forever will creep into your ex’s psyche and will have your ex yearn for you even more.
Get a smokin’ hot body to make your ex want you back badly
Right or wrong, looks are very important to a lot of people. If physical appearance is essential to your ex and you need to get in shape, then you have no choice but to get a new hot body here.
Watch what you eat, get off the couch and exercise in a consistent manner to get slim, fit and healthy. You don’t have to go to the gym if you don’t want to. There are many workouts you can do at home.
You can also take walks, swim, ride a bike or even take a dancing class (salsa is lots of fun!). Consistency and commitment are the keys here.
Once you develop your fabulous new look, watch out, as your ex will be in hot pursuit and want you back!
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You’ve made your ex want you back – now what?
Eventually, your ex will break down and contact you. Don’t be surprised if you are teased with a phone call, a text message or an email and asks to get together with you. At this point, it’s probably okay to accept and say “yes.”
These are the initial steps. These are effective steps to start the ball rolling. But to make sure the relationship lasts this time around, explore even more powerful strategies to make your ex want you back for good.
Find out how to bring back love even if infidelity was present in the relationship, or your ex is with someone new! Without a doubt, you will need step-by-step, cunning and unconventional methods in these difficult situations.
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